tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1192051472718947284.post6175909711299002860..comments2023-07-26T04:57:57.776-05:00Comments on We're Making up for lost time: I used to get my way... or did I?Mikkihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01759189617805706399noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1192051472718947284.post-21482651222320131082011-08-21T05:51:36.022-05:002011-08-21T05:51:36.022-05:00I too, have to struggle with only exploding when t...I too, have to struggle with only exploding when there is a true need! SO many things tick me off but in the general scheme of things, are really not worth fighting over. Letting go, letting them wash over you and away, is difficult but once done, the peace you experience makes you wonder why you struggled to do it! xxxxxxxDaisychainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10327195200946342709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1192051472718947284.post-90064801322805111362011-08-08T21:19:39.712-05:002011-08-08T21:19:39.712-05:00You are so right Stormy!! Hard to have a fun sexy ...You are so right Stormy!! Hard to have a fun sexy time fighting over petty junk! Nothing stronger than a strong marriage! :o)Mikkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01759189617805706399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1192051472718947284.post-61324483094507930602011-08-08T21:17:45.894-05:002011-08-08T21:17:45.894-05:00Sara... I have been reading your blog for months a...Sara... I have been reading your blog for months and I can relate to so much of what you say in your writings. I feel honored that you read my blog... I really look up to you.<br /><br />I know you have really been struggling lately and I'm so sorry for that. I don't know if the frustration will resurface next time... but I have to say that I'm learning to pick my fights. I'm trying to decipher what is important and what isn't worth fighting over... that is one of the things I'm learning in Dd. S doesn't have a problem listening to my thoughts as long as I'm respectful in the process. It is tricky, that is true... but I think we both know it's so worth figuring it out!<br /><br />Thank you so much for helping me and mine get our heads wrapped around this TTWD! *hugs*Mikkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01759189617805706399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1192051472718947284.post-68751525980741435642011-08-08T02:56:58.592-05:002011-08-08T02:56:58.592-05:00So much better than fighting. I hate being spanked...So much better than fighting. I hate being spanked, but power struggles are so unromantic. It's good to have a way to resolve things and keep our marriages strong.Stormyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16673792378276047115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1192051472718947284.post-34332631880124986582011-08-06T20:40:23.825-05:002011-08-06T20:40:23.825-05:00Hi Mikki, lot's of wonderful things come from ...Hi Mikki, lot's of wonderful things come from Dd. And learning not to nag or throw fits is one, but there's also a place for saying what you feel when you're upset. Do you think your frustration about your requests being ignored will resurface next time? I wonder if there can be a balance...expressing yourself without causing big arguments or strife. For me that has been tricky but important. Sarafindingsarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07352980311488921341noreply@blogger.com