Thursday, March 1, 2012

We knew it would get better

How is it that our moods are so in tune with the weather?  If its over cast and yucky outside, our mood can definitely take a plunge in short order.  On the other hand, a person who might have been having a bout of the blues might step out doors, the sun beaming down and bathe that person with warmth and turn that frown upside down.

The weather in our region has been fabulous!  Sunshine, birds singing, spring is popping all over the first of March!!  How freaking wonderful is that??  S seems to be feeling so much better!  He is finding projects outside that have been needing to be done... and he has the motivation to also clean out his shop... which is a feat in and of it's self!! LOL

Many of you read and commented on my last post where I had a fitty fit when S decided he was going to take a risk that I didn't feel was worth it.  Well.... here is what happened...

Nothing.  He didn't do what he wanted to do after my head spun around.  He didn't get mad at me for wigging out, I think because he knew I was right.  There was no fight... no horrible words that would have exploded prior to ttwd.  There was respect... there was love... there was compassion...

We haven't been spanking lately, and I have been worrying that since we haven't been actively practicing Dd, that we would just fall apart and go back to the bad habits that we forced upon each other before.  After the episode, I went back to being respectful and submissive... and he started talking to me as if nothing ever happened.  Communication is so important... but sometimes communication doesn't have to involve words.  Sometimes less is more.  Sometimes just body language... eye contact... attitude... all speaks louder than words.

Thank you all so much for your support!  This community means so much to me!  It means so much to "hang out" with others who have "been there, done that"

Life is good!! ((hugs))