Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Happy Valentines Day!!

I can't believe it's been so long since I've posted anything.  I've been around.  I've been reading... commenting... enjoying stumbling onto a few new bloggers.  But I've not really had a lot to say.

We were supposed to have a plan to ensure that I would receive my reminder spankings.  It worked very well the first night... and then the second night.... but the third and forth, I just couldn't make myself.  Who wants to ask for pain?  I know there are some of you out there who would beg for pain.  Heck I'm sure some even pay for it... I just couldn't remind him of my reminder/maintenance.


Last night he remembered.  Right before we were headed to bed he took me by the hand and led me to the spot where we had decided that no one would hear.  I balked a bit.  Told him I was fine and didn't need one... he said that I did... he was right... I did need one.  It had been a while since we had had a spanking session.  Yesterday was a tough day.  Kids stomping all over my last nerve... we were under a winter weather advisory (now it decides to dump our first snow... in FEBRUARY).  We were well prepared for this storm, but it was the unknown that was unnerving.  I had a couple of fits... nothing horrific and nothing pointed at him,  but not my normal self.

The evening was quiet... kids found something quiet to do, trying to be invisible as to not to get anyone's attention to be sent to bed.  S was watching TV and I was surfing the net... reading blogs...   I got up and took my shower to prepare for bed, and I felt so much better.   The bad attitude washed off and down the drain.   A wonderful feeling.  I put the kids to bed and finished surfing.  Nice quiet night... warm home.. snow on the ground outside and feeling very thankful for all God has blessed us with.  We decided it was time to head for bed, closing everything down... and he took my hand... it took a second or two for it to get my attention... he tugged a bit... drew me too him.  He said "Come on, it's time".  "Oh... no... I'm good... you really don't have to...  " I balked.  "Oh, I know I don't have to... and yes you do" he said ever so calmly.



He led me to our spot... I reluctantly bent over as told.... my pajamas were slipped down.  He lovingly rubbed my behind.. very sweet... and the spanking with his hand began.  His hand is my favorite implement.  No warm up for my guy.. he just plowed right in... after about 3 he had taken my breath away.  He kept going... wanting to make sure that I was "good".  This wan't a punishment so I knew that this wasn't going to be horribly intense, but after not having been spanked for a while....  he got his point across! ;-)

We headed to bed... we had a nice love session.  During a bit of pillow talk I apologized for not reminding him like we had talked about.  He asked me why I hadn't and I explained that while I loved where my head goes after a spanking.... and where I also loved where his head goes after a spanking (I know this by how he acts after)... I just couldn't ask the pain.  I did tell him that if he wanted me to I would bring it up.

He's thinking he can remember.

I'm doubting it... but there is always a glimmer of hope! LOL

Today is Valentines Day.... I feel so connected to my guy... that in it's self is plenty!  We don't spend a lot of money on this day.  We are hoping to be able to get out this evening and have dinner together while leaving the kids at home with a home made pizza.  Time by our selves as a couple is the best present I could possibly get!!



Happy Valentines Day everyone!!  Hope it's all you could possibly want and more!!  ((hugs))

29 comments:

  1. Sounds like you had a lovely reconnection last night. I can relate to not wanting to ask for a spanking. Sometimes Cael will even say "What do you want right now?" and I scream to myself in my head that I want a spanking and then my mouth usually says "Cuddling." It's hard to ask for something that is painful and humiliating, even if you want it!

    I hope you two have wonderful Valentine's Day! :)

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    1. Thank you!!

      Hope you had a wonderful Valentine evening too! ;o)

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  2. Lovely post. Hope it all goes as planned. Enjoy and Happy Valentine's Day to you both- kids too!!!

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  3. I know how hard it is to ask for the maintenance, Mikki. I have such mixed emotions about it, too. Here's hoping our men remember these things all on their own...

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    1. Here Here!! Mixed emotions just touches the tip of the iceburg!!

      Happy Valentine evening!!

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  4. Aaaaawwww, very sweet! I hope you and S have a wonderful Valentine's Day! :)

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    1. Thank you... and I hope you and yours have a wonderful evening as well! ((hugs))

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  5. Why is it so hard to ask for it? I struggle with it too and wish I didn't.

    I hope you get your night out. Our kids are older now, but I remember how precious that alone time is when they are young.

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    1. Yeah, the kids came with us... but it was fine anyway! ;o) But at least they have their own room! *giggling*

      Happy Valentine evening! ((hugs))

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  6. Happy Valentines Day!!! Great post! xxxxxx

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    1. Thank you... Happy to hear about your lovely flowers and candy!! Davey is such a romantic!

      Happy Valentine evening! ((hugs))

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  7. How great is it that he remembered...and accepted no excuses. Happy Valentine's Day!!

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    1. Yep, no excuses... gotta love a man who knows how to handle his woman! ;o)

      Happy Valentine's evening!! ((hugs))

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  8. I hope you get your night out without the children. Happy Valentine's Day.

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    1. Thank you! Happy Valentine's Day to you as well! ((hugs))

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  9. Happy Valentine's Day, Mikki! Hope you have a fun evening. Daddy and I are going out to dinner and a movie, also. I love date nights!

    Love,
    Kitty

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    1. We let the kids come with... very informal... but we will be alone tonight! *wink* ((hugs))

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  10. Happy Valentine's Mikki! I am wondering why he can't set an alarm to go off at 9PM every night on his phone, or put a pop up on his computer, or a sticky on his toothbrush holder, or a note taped to his pajama drawer...something? Sara

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    1. *giggling* You are so funny Ms Sara! I will pass on this info... ((hugs))

      Hope you and Grant are having a great evening!

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  11. Have a lovely Valentines Day Mikki :)

    It's so hard to ask, isn't it?

    Fondly. Skyb

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    1. Oh, so hard to ask for!! ((hugs))

      Hope you have a great day tomorrow!! *wink*

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  12. I wouldn't be able to ask and I think it's awesome that he not only remembered but wouldn't let you weasel out of it. Here's to hoping on Thursday night. (Humm...if it seems like he's not remembering, a bit of crankiness seems to trigger his memory...)

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    1. Yeah, I would hate to have to reduce myself to bratting just to get a spanking... but I suppose a I might have to once in a while if his memory gets a bit fuzzy! LOL

      Hope you guys have a wonderful Valentine evening!((hugs))

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  13. I am glad that you benefitted from the doing and the "after" (wink). We are still trying to figure out the kid hearing thing, right now I drop my son off at school and then turn around and come back home for ten minutes. It is lovely together time, but it doesn't work with the schedule on all maintenance days. Happy V day!

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    1. Wow... you guys have it down to a science!! I'm trying to figure out how to sound proof our room!!!

      Happy Valentine evening!!

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  14. Have a very happy Valentine's Day - and how sweet that your husband was so attentive and understood your needs. Needs are so hard to explain.

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    1. Needs and desires are so hard to own up to!! He is very sweet..sometimes! JK!! Wouldn't trade him for a million!! ;o)

      Hope you had a Happy Valentine evening!!

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  15. I hope you both had a lovely time Mikki :)

    Dee x

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