Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Long time no see!!!!
Hey everybody!! I can't believe that it has taken so long for me to post... life has been crazy.. so much to do so little time to post!!! Anyway... I've missed you all terribly... I keep meaning to take a few minutes to post... but it seemed when I had a minute or two, I wasn't impressed with how things were going and didn't really want to get on here and whine.... but here I am now... I'll try to get ya'll caught up! lol
My computer did get fixed... it took some doin' buy finally she is back home where she needs to be!! ;o) Hopefully spyware won't be a problem again!!
Our kids... Our 13yo son is still doing well... as well as teens can be! LOL Our 8yo daughter is doing well... she is the bubbly in our family. I have been meaning to have the "talk" with her... we have always been very open, she knows she can ask any question and I will talk to her about anything... well yesterday I was helping her after her shower (she asked, it's not required) she lifted her arms and OMGoodness, she had armpit hair!! AAuugghhhh!!! It just seems like 8 is a bit early for that!!! So... I guess I'm going to get her a care package together and we are going to have a girl time date. I'm so excited for her.... so proud of her.... but then I remember what it was like to have that monthly visit... I'm glad it's her and not me! I just pray that I'm able to guide her to be the beautiful young woman that I just know she will be... but honestly, 8yo....she is still my baby. I know she will always be my baby.... they both will be!!!
My S... he is doing fine. His back is not giving him much grief which is wonderful! He is still on sick leave from his other medical issue... which is driving him nuts. He is stuck at home with me... not much to do but watch TV and baby our dog. He doesn't have a hobby so this is a very tough time for him. We were both struggling a couple of weeks ago... doing better now. Communication is the core of any good marriage no matter if you decide to have spanking in your life or not. Dd is definitely the way in which we believe that we need to live... but I'm thinking we probably won't practice spanking any longer. This makes me sad because I really want/need this, but I guess he doesn't want to.... and I guess that's that. I wrote him an email and explained how much I wanted/needed maintenance/reassurance spankings... that was a couple of weeks ago... I have decided that it's not worth our marriage to shove down his throat what he isn't interested in. We still love each other... I am still submissive... and maybe someday we will get there. Life is a process...I guess I decided that if we aren't both into it then it isn't for us. We'll figure it out... one day at a time!! ;o)
So anyway.... I guess that is all I have for today.... cept that I want to make sure that you all know that I've missed you and I'm hoping to catch up on everyone's posts!!