Tuesday, September 6, 2011

I still love His...

Oh baby... I got me a spanking last night!  A nice one... yeah, it hurt.... but it was one that was near perfect.

As I'm sure you know, if you have been following this blog of mine, that it's been a bit since I've had a spanking.  For what ever reason... and he most generally has many... I haven't had one in a couple of weeks.  Now I was just saying just yesterday that I am very turned on by the thought of being spanked but hate that they hurt.  Don't laugh... it's just an observation that needs to be said out loud every once in a while!

Anyway.... I digress.... I've not really been bratting.... but there have been little attitude thingys that have been coming to the surface that I needed him to nip in the bud.  I have come to the realization that serious damage can be done in a relationship between spankings that are spread out too far.  Besides.... really.... how hard is it to give a girl a spanking anyway?!?

Don't you think it would be so much easier to put a brush to a lasses behind a few times to remind her who the boss is as opposed to letting her mouth get so out of control that more than just a reminder has to be given?? That was my thinking last night when I asked S for my spanking.

We had gone to bed early last night with the express intention of messin' around.  We had a good time... being very attentive to each other.... but there was this nagging need for a... oh no.. no I don't want that...  shut up... I will just roll over and go to sleep and I'll be just fine.  I was just getting ready to roll over when I heard myself say... "Do you think you could spank me tonight?" Area you out of your freaking mind??  I thought I was gonna go to sleep!!

"Yeah, sure.... where is my brush?" he says.

"It's right here".... Got up and grabbed it.....  I don't know why the *%&*!%$* we couldn't just go to sleep...

He has learned from a bit of feed back what works and what doesn't.  He is definitely getting way better at warm-ups, which I kind of liken to getting better at foreplay... the better you get at it the more you are willing to do it!  He warmed me up quite nicely... and then put some strategically placed  whacks on my sit spot... alternating buns... sometimes going a bit high on the rump, but for the most part.... a perfect spank!  Not too long... not too short...

Then my favorite part... he likes to rub my behind after a spanking.  Softly.... gently.... not attempting to do anything but to just enjoy laying there and being gentle.... cooling off my sit spot.

He is just such a good guy... he has so much on his plate these days since he has become a full time student, that is a whole other story for another time.  I don't want to put any undo pressure on him by bugging him to get better at knowing when I need a spanking.

For now I'm ok with asking for one when I need one.

For now~ ;o)


  1. Good for you!
    I can't do that. Ask for one, I mean. No matter how desperate I am... it ruins the whole thing for me in my head.
    But I am glad it works for you! xxxxxx

  2. Yeah, I get that... for some spanks. The kind I needed was just that he was in charge and was willing to take care of me. I know what you mean as far as like a punishment spank or a passionate spank... I just needed him to show me he is still the man, and he is! ;o)

    I have come to find out that if I want it, and I don't want to brat to get a punishment, then I have to ask for it... knowing is half the battle! LOL

  3. Sounds like a nice evening was had by all! :)

    I write letters to my Master and ask him in a very coy way for a spanking LOL He seems to like it. Although, they have to wait until HE comes home.

    I think the spankings I "ask" for are a lot different than "punishment" spankings. So, I don't feel strange asking for them!

    Thanks Mikki for the anal plug information, too. I tried ebay with no luck but will check online for them. Sapphire is the one I like too!

    Take care, Sky

  4. Sky... Yeah, it was a nice evening!

    You are so welcome for the info... too bad you couldn't find one on ebay... I got mine for like $10... a great deal since my guess it's going to probably last FOREVER! It does clean very easily too... and also have been told it's pretty... haven't seen it from my angle! ;o)

    Worth every dime!! *giggling*