Thursday, August 18, 2011
Needing help from my fellow bloggers...
Ever feel like you just need a spanking? I know you have... I've read about the times when the HOH was supposed to give a spanking and then doesn't. Sucks. I'm feeling a bit snippy. I'm not feeling kept. I'm feeling like I have to do all the things that is required of me, but not getting any of the little perks. Maybe I need a nap. There is too much to do for me to be able to take a nap.
I'm the manager of our house.... not the Boss. Maybe I should send the Boss a memo that all employees need to be taken in hand. Again... like so many of you.... don't want to tell him how to do his job... So how do you get what you need without telling him how to do his job.
He blames the kids. No it's not their fault... he says they are around and might hear. Doesn't seem to feel the need to find some sort of alternative. I have a wonderful imagination and have read so many blogs that I have some wonderful ideas on how and where.
I was supposed to get a maintenance on Monday... this is Thursday... I even mentioned it Sunday and he was glad that I had reminded him because he had forgotten. Monday came.... he didn't want to use the only quiet implement that we have because he said I don't like it... am I stupid or is that kinda the point?? Just feeling a bit jipped.
He is yet another HOH who doesn't read blogs... I'm thinking that I need to introduce him. Not sure that is such a wonderful idea. :o) I know I need to be careful what I ask for, I just might get it!!
I love my S. I love him more than anything in this world. I'm looking forward to struggling through the empty nest thing together. I'm looking forward to growing older and wiser together. I know this is just a little bump in the road... and that I need to enjoy the process. I do, most of the time. I would say even like 99.4% of the time I couldn't be happier... or more content with my life with my man. I'm just feeling a bit glitchy today.
Do any of you have any suggestions as to how to get a bit of privacy, or maybe an implement that is quiet but yet gets the job done. What are your thoughts....